Sex

Forget everything you’ve learned about sex from religion. The Bible is explicit about what is not allowed sexually. Nothing is needed but its clear instructions.

And God does not watch intimate or personal things.

And for a couple who are married, don’t even worry about anything in the bedroom. Love is the only requirement. Time to fix the bedroom!

Real Christians have the best sex because we have superior freedom.

Frequency of sex. Talk about it with your partner.

You will be ceremonially unclean for one hour after sex. But if it is urgent or an emergency, pray anyway.

Sex is a part of life and you were created to enjoy it within marriage to the degree you would definitely not want anyone else.

Body signals indicate when Holy Spirit is active. It’s how we are designed. It is not active during private and intimate things. Isn’t Our Father a genius? It’s one of the reasons we were designed with two sets of nerves. To experience romantic love when Holy Spirit is not active. Absolute privacy.

There are some things you may experience in the bedroom that you think are Holy Spirit, but they are things called “wonderful things”. They are things in your mind. You’ll work it out.

Masturbation is a personal choice matter. We are dignified with it.

1 Corinthians 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, (King James Version KJV)

These are things directed to those who will rule with Christ as Kings and Priests in Heaven but the same principles apply to everyone.

Fornication is sex between unmarried people. Common-law marriage is acceptable to God. Idolators are people who treat anything as more important than God.

The last part is directed towards men. The principle is “no sex with the same gender”.

Gender Identity

Transsexual, Transgender and Intersex people are acceptable to God as long as they obey 1 Corinithians 6:9 which applies to everyone.

You will understand your gender by prayer to God and He will help you to be yourself. Elders are to be merciful and not look at anyone’s gender changes (Matthew 12:7).

The same thing applies to homosexual people, God understands your situation and loves you.  He will help you also by prayer.

Online Dating

Before you attempt online dating you must Google the following:

pof romance bot dating scam catfish kik

Also, people use email templates that augment the reality of the person.  It is generally known what people are looking for in a relationship, so they cater to those needs.

Be careful. Remain on the dating site and communicate with their interface only. Do not go off the dating site and use any other software or email.  You can confirm identity with an immediate selfie request and a local phone call.

They will ask you how long you have been on the dating site to see if you are new and vulnerable and then ask you a little bit later to go off it to use another software.  Major red flag.

Romance bots are sophisticated software that augment chatting, they are not great conversationalists but they say what you want to hear repetitively to produce an emotional response.

The Bible says, be cautious as serpents, innocent as doves.

36 Questions that can make you fall in love (can be used to help relationships or as a tool against you)

Useful sites:

https://www.consumer.ftc.gov/blog/2015/07/faking-it-scammers-tricks-steal-your-heart-and-money

RomanceScam.com

SocialCatfish.com

Remember that physical sex between unmarried people is fornication, romance is not.

Approach dating prayerfully and marry “only in the Lord” to another Christian.

With love,

Tiffany